The Secret of Happiness

Here’s an interesting take on happiness from Roy Williams.  These are all universal truths.  Every "book" says it.  The current economic conditions test our spirits.  But the constant reminder that SSS Harbhajan Singh Khalsa (Yogi Bhajan) used to always give us was "Keep Up!"

When we Keep Up doing the work described so well below, it keeps us  UP. And that’s so much better than down!

Albert Schweitzer was a musician and physician who won the Nobel Peace Prize in 1952. This is the message he left for us when he died: “I don’t know what your destiny will be, but one thing I do know: the only ones among you who will be really happy are those who have sought and found how to serve.”

Now lest you think I’ve gone all touchy-feely, riding my unicorn over the rainbow as I sprinkle sparklies on the world below, I’ll poke you with the pointed advice of Ann Radcliffe: “One act of beneficence, one act of real usefulness, is worth all the abstract sentiment in the world.” In other words, “No one wants to hear what you believe. We’re watching. Show us.”

You go, Ann.

Talk is cheap. Beautiful dreams are for rainbow riders. Small actions, relentless actions, committed actions are the signature of people who change the world.

Are you a world changer?

“The first duty of a human being is to assume the right functional relationship to society – more briefly, to find your real job, and do it.” – Charlotte Perkins Gilman

Have you found your real job? Are you doing it?

No? (Don’t worry, if you’re not yet sure of your real job, Sid Lloyd will help you find it on March 13.)

“You’re not obligated to win. You’re obligated to keep trying to do the best you can every day. A lot of people are waiting for Martin Luther King or Mahatma Gandhi to come back – but they are gone. We are it. It is up to us. It is up to you.” – Marian Wright Edelman

In the spirit of Marian Edelman, Horace Mann challenged the 1859 graduating class of Antioch University thusly: “Be ashamed to die until you have won some victory for humanity.”

“Be ashamed to die.” It takes real teeth to say things like that. Horace had him some teeth.

Remember the happiness promised to us by Albert Schweitzer? Jimmy James Barrie gave us Peter Pan, then said, “Those who bring sunshine into the lives of others, cannot keep it from themselves.” I’m thinking he was right.

I have confidence in the words of these 7 worthies because they agree with the Jewish rabbi we quoted last week. “Anyone who seeks his own happiness will not find it. But those who seek the happiness of others will find happiness in all they do.” – a transliteration of the words of Jesus from Mathew 16

Hiding for her life in an attic, the irrepressible Anne Frank said, “How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world.”

This was a buoyant attitude for a teenage girl hiding in an attic. But you’re not hiding in an attic. You’re staring into the mirror of a brand new year, full of possibilities.

Look into the eyes of that mirror.

Who will you be in 2009?

3 Responses to “The Secret of Happiness”

  1. Happy/Lucky Singh says:

    Gurumustuk Veerjee,
    Chak De Fatte!  I love this article.  Secret is in the serving.  I love it. 
    Thank you!

  2. Canuck Singh says:


    Let us continue to work together to serve… be service…

  3. Kim says:

    Thank you so much for this post!  It builds the momentum for the desire for happiness in serving one another.
    A favorite author of mine, Mary Baker Eddy, once wrote “Happiness is spiritual, born of Truth and Love.  It is unselfish; therefore it cannot exist alone, but requires all mankind to share it.”
    Thank YOU for sharing!