Monthly Archive for September, 2006

Men’s Circle by the Fire

Last night while the "girls" were having a pre-wedding party, the guys got together under the stars around a fire. Not your typical bachelor party! A little bit of meditation and chanting, and then sharing. It was great having some time for the guys to hang out and share personal experiences with each other relating to marriage; giving support to a friend who is about to get married. I think it’s important to have a support group and have people that you can confide and share with.

Narayan came along with me for the "boys night" and had fun watching the fire and throwing sticks in. I enjoyed the father/son time with him. I look forward to more of this type of thing as he get’s older.

Sitting around the fire….

Meditating together…

A Picture of one of my friends meditating by the fire. I took the picture in a way that it looks like he is levitating over the fire.

I am a Disco Dancer

It’s friday so I thought why not post something a bit different….even though it has nothing to do with Sikhs. It’s just a flashback for me. I just happened upon one of my friend’s myspace page and found a funny song which I remember hearing often in the 80’s. While I was in boarding school in India (Mussoorie) we used to have a “town leave” around once a month where we got to go into the town of Mussoorie (which is a hill station in the mountains above Dehradun, India). During the town leave we used to sometimes go to this roller skating rink. Hey, it was the 80’s, and roller skating was totally the “in” thing. This was a time when “Disco Divani” and Disco Dancing was popular (Even in India!). I remember hearing the song “I am a disco dancer” quite often during that time, and we used to joke about it. I think most of us students will remember this song.

I did a few searches online and found an actual video that someone posted online. Apparently the song was part of an Indian movie called “Disco Dancer”.

It’s quite funny watching the video which is a combination of bad dancing and cheesy gangtser fight scenes from the movie. This movie came out in 1982, so it is pretty old.

I wonder if others out there heard this song/movie when they were younger. This might be boring for many of you…but for me it was one of those silly things I remember from when I was a kid in India that we all joked about, so it was cool to see that it actually existed and wasn’t just an imagined thing from my past. Who knows?? It was hard being a little kid and being in boarding school half way accross the world.

This was the same time when we had the Human Powered Ferris Wheel, and used to get rides while THIS very music was playing, and the guys that were spinning the ferris wheel would do tricks while they were spinning us around. Open up the picture and click on the large version and you’ll see them in the center of the farris wheel.

You can watch the video below, or if you don’t have broadband internet you can hear the audio clip

Dishoom Dishoom!

Photo Blogging on Flickr

 
Every day or two I have been going through pictures I have taken over the past 15 years and posting some of the unique and interesting ones up on Flickr. It’s always challenging trying to only pick a few and ones that I think are better than the rest. Trying to post more quality than quantity. If you are into taking pictures register for an account and give it a try. It can be quite fun…and Flickr makes the pictures look pretty nice.
 
Just in case you didn’t already notice, on the right side bar (of this blog) there are small little thumbnail images showing the latest photos that I have posted on Flickr. You can click on any of them to view the full image and add comments. You can do all kinds of other cool things with Flickr…so explore way! (Post pictures to your blog, browse images based on location…through a map, make new friends with similar interests, post pictures from your cell phone, etc).

View my Pictures on Flickr 

Guru Ram Das and the Yogis (A Story)

Guru Ram Das and Baba Siri Chand

Every day till Guru Ram Das Ji’s Gurpurb someone in our community here in Espanola is telling a story about Guru Ram Das.

Here is a story that was told by Shanti Kaur Khalsa about Guru Ram Das Ji and Baba Siri Chand (Guru Nanak Dev ji’s Son), as well as encounters with other Yogis and what Guru Ram Das ji taught them. Click on the play button below to listen to the story.

Pictured Right is a painting depicting part of the story of Guru Ram Das Ji wiping the feet of Baba Siri Chand with his beard. The picture was printed along with 107 other artworks during the 1999 Baisakhi celebrations.

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Cool Dynamic Screen Saver to Show Sikh Photos

Many of you have probably heard of the cool photo website called  Flickr. This is probably one of the best places to find pictures. Especially Sikh related pictures. For years I have wished there was a place where photographers could post Sikh pictures that the general public would have access to view. There are loads of awesome pictures on the website, and for the past couple of months I have been posting some of my pictures every day or two. It’s kind of like "photo blogging" since it has a whole community aspect with friends/contacts, commenting, etc. You can check out my photos on flickr if you like.

The point of this post was to share a cool free screen saver program (slickr) that enables you to have an always changing selection of pictures. You’ll need Windows and an internet connection in order for the screen saver to download pictures. Works best with broadband (fast) internet access.

Download slickr Screen Saver - More info

Here are a few screen captures of the options for to control what to display on the screen saver. You can enter different words/tags to control what types of pictures to show. If you select the "group" option this will show pictures from particular picture groups that have been setup on Flickr. For example, there are two Sikh related groups. One is "sikhs" and the other is  Golden Temple (For this one you’ll have to put in this: 78978107@N00 ). The screen saver will then cycle through the pictures in that photo group.

 

If you like a particular person’s pictures you can select to only show pictures by that Flickr User. In this example my use ID "gurumustuk singh" is listed. With this setting the screen saver would cycle through any pictures that I post on Flickr.


 

If you select the "Show file info" option then you’ll see the photo title/author when the picture displays. This is nice sometimes if you want to get more information about the picture which is on screen. 

 

 

Keyboard Shortcuts

  • Pressing ‘D’ on your keyboard will set your wallpaper to the current image that is on screen.
  • Pressing the Space bar on your keyboard will open your browser to current image.

The Division of a People

Yesterday I watched the film "Earth" by Deepa Mehta and it made me think more about the partition of India and all things that have happened since then. First off, my family does not come from India, so I only have a VERY LIMITED understanding and knowledge about how the 1947 partition/independence of India effected people. So, from my "outsiders" perspective it gave me some more insights into some of the hate and division between the different religious communities of the region. It was so heart wrenching to see what so many people went through during that period, all the lives that were lost, and how these events still impact us today.

As a youth going to school in India (Mussoorie/Dehradun) and even today I always noticed subtle hate and division between some Sikhs and Hindus/Muslims. I never understood where this came from.

The story of Earth is true. Its effects are still reverberating throughout India and Pakistan today.

On August 15, 1947, India gained Independence from Britain. Gandhi’s ‘Quit India’ movement and his relentless struggle for ‘Home Rule’ by all Indian communities had finally become a reality. Hindus, Muslims and Sikhs, India’s largest religious groups, who, under Gandhi’s non-violent mantle had struggled together against the British, began to clamour for pieces of India for themselves, a Muslim Pakistan and a largely Hindu-Sikh India. The idea of a separate Muslim state, a Pakistan, gained favour despite opposition from Gandhi. As the Division of India became imminent, the euphoria over Independence turned into despair. Violence erupted between Muslims, Hindus and Sikhs in an atmosphere of unease about the future. What followed was a catastrophe brought about by politicians who failed to grasp the implications of dividing a country along religious lines. The British, before leaving India, determined the new boundaries between Independent India and the would-be Pakistan. Viceroy Mountbatten announced the new borders on the 13 August, 1947, just two days before India would become independent. This announcement escalated the brewing violence into a bloodbath. It is estimated that over one million people were killed in sectarian violence as up to six million Muslims moved towards Pakistan and up to five million Hindus and Sikhs moved towards India.

The province of Punjab, with its mixed religious populations, saw the worst of the migration and its beautiful city of Lahore became a focal point for the carnage. Hindus, Muslims and Sikhs, who had lived together for centuries, became the bitterest of enemies, causing wounds that, fifty years later, have still not healed.

The story of Earth is told through the eyes of Lenny, an eight-year-old Parsee girl growing up in Lahore in a wealthy, loving family. Each day Lenny travels to the nearby Queens Gardens with her beautiful Hindu Ayah (nanny), Shanta, who attracts a great deal of male attention. The men in Shanta’s circle include Hindus, Muslims and Sikhs. Similarly the staff in Lenny’s house are a harmonious group representing different religious groups in India. Read More…

I watched the film which started showing the above characters as friends and then as time got closer to the Independence of India things got more and more full of hate and violence, and eventually tore the friendships apart. It makes me wonder if these events are the major reason for many of the inter-religious problems today between Sikhs, Muslims and Hindus.
I can only imagine how deep these wounds are for everyone; How much rage and hate is bottled up inside people. Other than the violence of the partition this also makes me think of the 1984 riots in Delhi. I wonder how people can have so much hate that they could do such horrible things to fellow humans.

The only thing is that we cannot get caught up in this hate/revenge/violence cycle which only will create more of the same. It’s the "eye-for-an-eye" mentality that just makes things worse. I think more people have been killed in the name of religion than any other cause in the entire human history.

So how can we as Sikhs help heal the wounds from the past and build partnerships for the future? This is the answer that I am seeking. It is too easy to get caught up in the hate. Ultimately we are all people of God, the one creator. Guru Nanak spoke so much about this and how we are all one and not really "this religion or that one". I think a good start is trying to see every other person as part of you, and being part of God. Normally the tendency is to put each person into some category which divides and separates us all. "He/She is black, white, hindu, muslim, this sikh, that sikh, jatt, amritdhari, mona, sehajdhari, good/bad person, etc". Just within the Sikh community there is so much division, so I know it’s a big challenge to take the leap to see a person of another religion or who is different than you, as a person of God like yourself.

I guess the point is, how do we start to see the sameness, the human-ness of everyone around us, rather than finding the differences. No matter what the person is like, I always try to think of the other person as a mirror of myself. Like they are a different cell in a larger body (God). Just as in your own body there are trillions of cells that are different, and work together to be a whole person and create the miracle of the human body. Every human around us has it’s own role and path. I think we merely need to start recognizing that the other person is YOU and you are THEM (Even though we are different!). This helps me to not look at the other person as something other than me/God…and gives me more compassion and understanding towards others, no matter what they do.

I think the answer to these issues starts with each one of us. We can blame others for the rest of our lives, but the ultimate responsibility is on each of us to create change in our own life, in our own family and in our own community.

I know this topic is probably a very sensitive one, so I apologize if I have offended anyone in my ramblings. I am just sharing my thoughts and what little I understand about the past situations, and what I see today. Please feel free to share your thoughts and comments relating to these issues, however PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE keep comments civil, productive, and solution oriented (rather than hateful/critical). Thank you!

Friends

Narayan and his good friend Sarabjot Kaur. These two have always gotten along really well together, like two peas in a pod.

Just Being a Kid

Sarabjot Kaur and Narayan goofing around with these funny masks at a party.

Peeking

Charanjeet Loves the sling. She peeks out with her hand along the edge.

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